A Parent's Guide for Getting Girls Into STEM Careers
As a kid growing up poor
in Humboldt County, I had no idea what Engineering
was. No one ever took me aside and said, "Engineers create things and get
paid a lot of money and have awesome lives." The only messages I got were,
"The police came by looking for your uncle again, don't tell them
anything."
High school was awful for
me. I lived in my hoarder grandmother's house, fell asleep listening to my cat
eating mice alive, and thought about suicide often. I failed out, never took my
SATs and ended up failing out of college twice. Through determination, the Air
Force and the sheer power of being awesome, I earned a Doctorate in Education,
made it to my dream city (San Diego)
and have a pretty cool life.
The reason I'm sharing
this is because I want great things for your children and I want to give you
every resource to encourage your daughters to get high paying, successful STEM
careers if that's their passion. I want you to teach them about facing challenges,
standing up to barriers, and to NEVER give up on their dreams. (My doctoral
dissertation was rejected three times). My goal as a professional life coach is
to make sure that high school students have a much better shot at life than I
did.I don't want them sleeping on the floor in college, unable to afford meat, or sleeping on a cot and eating moldy tuna fish sandwiches in grad school. (I have a bed and a dining table now, its pretty awesome). My journey was unnecessarily difficult and I want better for your teens.
By some weird twist of
fate, I ended up teaching high school Engineering in San Diego for five years. I learned a lot and
by the last few years, was really making impacts. I coached two robotics teams,
mentored students, and helped many get to college despite being from low income
families or having horrible life situations.
Keep in mind that STEM
careers can be mistakenly thought of as boring or not feminine or even female
friendly. It's important to expose girls to as much as possible. I have broken
down the activities and resources by age. Remember that when teaching STEM, its
important to use the following at first:
*hands on projects
*bright colors for
diagrams
*working with friends or
in groups
*association with real
life events/concepts
*fun projects that mix
creativity and design with STEM topics
*immersion and experiences
related to STEM
My ADD was kickin pretty
bad in high school because I was a tactile learner. If I had been able to build
robots, work with my friends, and actually have experiences that were fun, I'd
probably be working at NASA right now, instead of sitting at home drinking wine
and listening to Deadmau5 on a Saturday.
It's important to create a
learning experience that appeals to the senses, can be relatable to real life
concepts and is half math, half hands on. Don't forget vocab words and you have
a great lesson plan for learning STEM.
The two best resources I
found have everything you will need. They are broken down by age and are a
great reference point. They have a ton of info on getting girls excited about
math and science.
http://www.mastersindatascience.org/blog/the-ultimate-stem-guide-for-kids-239-cool-sites-about-science-technology-engineering-and-math/
http://www.wise.iastate.edu/resources.html
Here is my personally
created timeline:
A STEM teaching
timeline for girls delineated by age
Age 6-9 (key goal is "new
concepts")
Actions
Try to build projects with
your girls that are varied in nature. One week could be a house and lighting,
the next could be a garden, the next a basic chemistry experiment, etc......
Make sure to introduce new
words related to the project and get them started on spelling.
This is also a great time
to take them to zoos, science fairs, and botanical gardens.
Introduce them to kid
friendly science web pages.
Projects
http://www.education.com/science-fair/elementary-school/
http://www.sciencekids.co.nz/experiments.html
http://www.roominatetoy.com/
Resources
http://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Books-Childrens-Engineering/zgbs/books/16244041
http://bits.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/11/29/shopping-for-a-girl-consider-science-and-engineering-toys/?_r=0
Age 10-13 (key goal is "experimentation")
Actions
Start finding girls
science or robotics groups. If their school doesn't have one, HAVE THEM START
ONE. If the school gives them any grief about it, set up a parent teacher
conference. Contact me if you need any help with this stuff. I have a very good
talent for negotiation.
"I don't think you heard me
right, Vice Principal Johnson. Those girls are getting that science lab ASAP.
And some sequined lab coats. I'd like mine in a large, please."
A math club is also a
really good supplementary activity at this age and can get them on the road for
STEM scholarships.
Projects
By this point, they should be upping the ante and
working on programming, some coding, and component level wiring or mid level
chemistry experiments.
This is a great collection
of pictures of projects for middle school level kids
https://www.pinterest.com/utwep/stem-activities-middle-school/
This is a complete review
of several robotics kits that are good for kids
http://www.razorrobotics.com/robot-kits/
This is a great physics project for middle school
girls:
http://www.docfizzix.com/
Chemistry sets
http://www.walmart.com/c/kp/kids-chemistry-kits
Resources
This is a big one. Danika
Mckeller, (yes, Winnie Cooper) wrote a couple of AMAZING math books for girls.
I have the whole set. They are beautifully designed and make learning math
concepts MUCH easier. (Plus I learned how to fix a broken high heel and to find
a foundation that matches my natural skin tone.) They can be found here: http://www.danicamckellar.com/math-books/
If there is one
recommendation I'd STRONGLY make today, it is to GET THESE BOOKS FOR YOUR
DAUGHTERS. They are amazing.
Age 14-18 (key goal is "immersion/exposure")
Actions
As your girls enter high school, a few actions
should be taken simultaneously:
*Arrange a meeting with an
Engineering mentor, it should be either a female college engineering student or
a younger female engineer. Girls need to see someone that is near their age,
and as someone they can emulate. The most important thing is that they see someone they would want to be like.
*Take your daughter to a
nearby college that has an engineering club. Engineering students LOVE to
mentor high school students and tell them about their experiences.
*Work with your daughter's
teachers to make sure that at least one tech related field trip is part of the
school year. They should visit a tech based company and get to see firsthand
what engineers, techs, and scientists do.
*Sit down with your
daughters and explain about the A-G requirements for entering college at a
state school. There are classes that HAVE to be completed to get to a 4 year
school. These are the requirements for California,
a quick google search can be used for your state if its different:
*Have your daughter sign
up for the Society for Women Engineers. They have scholarships, resources, and
mentoring.
*I cannot stress enough
how awesome Engineering an Empire is. Its a series of historical documentaries
about various civilizations that has CGI and historical reenactments. Get it
off Amazon. My students LOVED this series and its hosted by Robocop's Peter
Weller!!
Projects
http://www.usfirst.org/roboticsprograms/frc
Resources
www.engineergirl.com
https://www.nsf.gov/news/classroom/engineering.jsp
Dr. Rob's Final Thoughts
Thanks so much for reading
my article. It is my hope that you push your daughters to be high achieving
performers in their field. Remember that there are always loopholes in life
just in case things go sideways. Especially in tech fields.
There are lots of
"fringe jobs" that few people know about that pay really well, even
without a technical degree, or with a 2 year degree.
I am a technical writer
for a turbine company. I don't have a technical degree and never passed Pre
Algebra.
I do the EXACT same job as
engineers that have Mechanical Engineering degrees and make just about the same
pay. How is this possible?
military aviation
background
writing background
So just remember, things
are not always linear in life. If your daughter has a high aptitude for
technical subjects, but takes English or Journalism instead in college, she can
STILL be a technical writer and start off at $22-$32 an hour.
PS: Here is one last
"easter egg" to help your daughters succeed. My BEST articles from
the Blue Dragon Enterprises Blog for fast reference:
How to Create an 80k Job
http://bluedragonent.blogspot.com/2015/03/3-ways-to-create-80000-jobno-really.html
The Best Teen Career Article of 2015
http://bluedragonent.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-best-teen-career-article-of-2015.html
How to Lifehack
College
http://bluedragonent.blogspot.com/2014/12/how-to-lifehack-college.html
Girl Power, Getting Your Daughter into Tech Careers
http://bluedragonent.blogspot.com/2015/04/girl-power-secrets-to-getting-your.html
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questions, feel free to ask, if you need to hire a professional teen mentor,
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